Those of you in LTRs - how often do you go on dates? Do you take turns planning them? Does one person take the other person out more often? Girl I'm seeing said something along the lines of "why don't you take me on dates anymore.' 10 days ago we spent a great night in Boston and it was awesome.. last week I took her out to dinner once. I was planning on taking her out Thursday of this week. This is someone I've been seeing since about April. Does that really seem too few and far between? We see each other allllllllllll the time and we've both been super busy.. but does once-a-weekish for a true date not cut it?