Hi, I must start by saying that this is the first time I have ever posted. My husband found this site and signed me up, thinking I could find some help, or at least some peace. You see, we have a daughter, 27 that was diagnosed with systemic Lupus in 2003. Its pretty much taken over her life. If you don't know about lupus, it is an autoimmune disease. If interested look it up, its quite a horrible disease, chronic, and at this time no cure. As a result from all the different medications they have tried on her she has developed epilepsy. I tell you this not to feel sorry for us, just that I don't know how to help her. She is angry!!! I guess I'm angry for her. Oh and by the way she also has a serious case of OCD. This makes it hard for her to get anything done, even make her doctor appointments on time. Pleading, begging and getting angry does no good, just makes everything worse. What I'm doing now I guess is venting. She has always been so talented and smart. An actor, dancer, writer, artist, all wrapped up in a spitfire of a girl that let no one or nothing stand in her way. Now that girl seems to be lost. I don't know how to help find her. Maybe you know someone like her, did they find help?