My first time posting in here, take it easy on me Last Saturday I had a poker night/hosting the Roy Jones/Trinidad fight. It was pretty much a last minute thing, I wound up having 10 people or so over. No females. When my wife returned on Tuesday from out of town, she found a bottle filled with cigarettes on the front step. She then called me out of work and asked me about it, I told her that I had a couple of close friends over to hang out and drink beer, but didn't tell the entire story. Needless to say, she got angry and stayed in a hotel that night. Come to last night, and she offered me a chance to tell the truth, but I continued on with the lie because by then it had snowballed, and called one of my friends to find out the truth. Well the truth came out, and she left again. This is the 2nd time I got caught in a lie. 1st time was me having a myspace page which I never told her about, even after she had her own. I don't know why I told her in the first place - I guess I didn't want a confrontation about it. She's now considering separation. There's not a whole lot I can do today; she has to leave town again (which i knew of in advance) and won't return until Monday. I'm lost, and I have no idea what to do. So I'm asking for feedback and advice, and I really need it. I don't want to lose her.