Well I've never really had a girlfriend, I get rejected quite often when it comes to interaction. So my sister in-law tells me to message one of her friends. We talk a bit, mostly just a bunch of smalltalk. Little bit about family and friends, our pasts, etc. This has been going on for about a few weeks. Just then I decide to step things up a bit, by introducing a game that my inlaw suggested to me. Basically truth and dare minus the dare to get to the nitty gritty. So when I ask her if she wants to she immediately says she has to go. Well I just immediately jumped to a bunch of conclusions and paranoid ones at that. "She knew what was going to happen". "Ugh, there's somebody else, I'm a joke!" "What the hell is wrong with me?" and a bunch of other crazy things. And I just totally freaked out. I mean we're not dating but I really do like her a lot and I'm just losing lots of sleep over some as miniscule and stupid like this. Any feedback?