I'm in the situation where my girlfriend would like to have better sex with me then I'm currently able, I'm rather inexperienced compared to her. She is perfectly ok with it cause she says shes happy with the relationship. I just wish I could do somethings to make the sex better for her. Any suggestions on where to start to make the sex more interesting.
How do you know you're inexperienced compared to her? Lay some pipe... just be aggressive like a wild animal. Don't hurt her, but let her feel that you're there...
Like I've only had a handful of partners shes a fair amount older then me. As far as the toys what in the line are you thinking?
How much older? If she's an experienced older woman, and you're a young guy, just let her show you the ropes. Older women know what they want/like anyways. She'll just train you into her love machine...
I guess I more am curious as to what he thinks about their sex is boring. Has she said something or is he just worried? Do they use a lot of positions? Has she said anything or alluded to something she would like in the bedroom? etc.
Umm, your best bet would be to ASK HER, what you could do to make it better for her...... This should be common sense. People have different desired and styles you need to find out what she enjoys specifically.
Shes alluded to it a few times, partially shes worried I'm not enjoying it to much (I just really don't have high expectations LOL ) . Shes told me that shes taught other boys to eat her, but she felt I don't like it so she doesn't want to show me. I get the feeling she likes me a lot so she isn't being very forthcoming in forcing the issue.
Very nice... Just let her show you what she wants. How'd this hookup get started? Is it just pleasure or are you 2 serious about each other?
Could it be that you're both not totally comfortable and open when it comes to sex? I don't think experience really has much to do with it. The best sex is when you're both on the same page.
This sounds like the most likely situation. We have been sleeping with each other for about 3 months, generally same 2-3 positions. It always gets a bit awkward when we start talking about what we like. Its weird cause we are both satisfied with relatively poor results and we are both wanting to make it better for the other but its just like always this weird awkward mess. We used to work with each other thats how we met, so we had a lot of time to build up a strong attraction.
2-3 positions? What a fucking snoozefest! Do you watch porn at all? Go watch some and try 5 new positions this week. Stop doing the same old same old, it gets old fast.
when spooning or doggy style you can reach around a play with her clit... with missionary type positions don't just pound in and out but learn how to grind while going in and out... works for me
here is one for both of you. have her lay flat on her stomach and you fuck her from behind. have her push her ass up a little so you can go for the reach around or she can manual herself . the plus for her is the clit rub, and you get a super tight pussy to fuck as she can flex her ass, legs, and pussy all at once to clinch on your dick. Feels fucking great. if you a fan of magic pull a Houdini
As others have said, switch positions. But even then, thats just basic stuff and will only take you so far. It really comes down to what turns both of you on. Start with yourself... think about it. What do YOU like? What turns YOU on? You don't have to discuss it beforehand... introduce whatever it is while things are happening. Take the lead and she will follow. When she sees that you're being open about what you like, she will(hopefully) do the same, and thats when great sex happens.
You got the Houdini? Thats Awesome! Side note, that is one of my favorite positions too.. i'm always like upon entering my g/f
This was my first reaction as well. Communication is the foundation of a good sex life. Add energetic willingness to that and you're pretty much set.