So far all the girls that I've hooked up with at college have been girls I met through friends at small dorm parties. When we go to the big frat parties there are tons of girls I'd like to get with, but I don't know how to start out with them. Like they are all drunk and dancing, but I suck at dancing so I can't just go start dancing. What advice do you have on introducing myself to them without being weird. For the facebook question, when I joined my schools network on facebook over the summer this one cute girl friended me. We wrote on each others wall for awhile and seemed to get along. That lasted for like 2 weeks over the summer then we never talked again. I completely forgot about her until I saw her on campus. I recognized her but when she looked at me it didn't seem like she recognized me. How could I remind her about that without seeming like a facebook stalker?