...actually, just the mom. Our school is on spring break this week and my boyfriend (of ~3.5 months, 6 if you count "dating" non exclusively) invited me to stay the night at his mom's house Monday night on my way home (his house is about 1/2 way to Atlanta where my parents live). He's apparently cleared everything with mommy dearest and she seems up to meet me, have me spend the night, etc. but I'm still really nervous I don't really talk to my mom, and I'm really intimidated by older adult women, especially someone so close to a person I really care about! He also did not discuss sleeping arrangements with her like I asked, and I think it's probably best that I sleep on the couch or something since this is the first time she's met me and he has 2 younger siblings (13 and 17). He on the other hand thinks it would be fine for us to sleep in his room even though he's never had a girl sleep over there before and hasn't tested her on the subject yet. So what do you guys think? Any tips on how to make the night go well with the mom/siblings? And about sleeping arrangements, should I listen to his judgment and go with sleeping in his room? or put my foot down and just sleep on the couch just to be sure? My biggest fear is that somehow I fuck up and make her think I'm some disrespectful slut or something, and my boyfriend seems to think I'm out of my mind for thinking she might be upset about it... I just really want her to like me and realize how much I like her son.