If you are looking for someone to fill the Girlfriend role in your life, or a fuck buddy role, or a wife, or if you are just looking for a one-night stand... have sex as soon with her as you want to/can. Girls - in PRACTICE - make relationship decisions based on the connection you have with them. Everything else is theory that goes out the window in the after-sex glow.
Fool around with girl first then go from there. If you're just looking to be physical, be honest. Don't lead girl on by stimulating her emotional side.
Even though they lead men on by stimulating their physical side? Seems to me like it's all part of the game.
It is but being honest to me is the first step in not leading someone on. That way they know what they're going into.
i prefer to get the sex factor out of the way early because i know i wont be able to make a spiritual connection with somebody if they dont have the proper vagina for my needs
It depends. If you can get past social conditioning, women generally like sex just for sex. Miss Red, I agree with being upfront, but not everyone is a planner. It's one thing to know that a long term relationship is out of the question, or that a long term relationship is what you want, and then keep it to yourself; it's another to find that kind of thinking unnecessary, and therefore have nothing to say on the subject of "where things can go."