I've also been scared of it. I'm already alone and undateable, but the rest is just really annoying. I know half of the world's population goes through it, so it's manageable. But that doesn't mean I gotta like it. I'll figure it out, and you will too once you get thereI can't imagine what you're going through, and honestly the idea of menopause freaks me out. I have no idea how it affected my mother or what I have in store, but it scares me so badly. I worry I'll piss everyone off in my life when it happens and I'll be all alone, and uncomfortable
My wife got put on something (super helpful, I know) that seems to help with them. She went from CRAZY swings in temp to just rarely semi-reasonable swings in temp. I can ask her what it is if you want.Luckily mine don't seem to last too long. But if I have too many of them I and then they don't bother me as much, I even will tend to feel chilly.
I've been peri for a while, not sure if it's been a full year now and officially full on or not, as I kept track on my old phone.My wife got put on something (super helpful, I know) that seems to help with them. She went from CRAZY swings in temp to just rarely semi-reasonable swings in temp. I can ask her what it is if you want.
She's pre-meno though, so I dunno if that makes a difference.
If you need to vent or whatever, and you want a guy who doesn't flinch at talk of all of that (I promise you, nothing desensitizes a guy about alllllllllllllllll the hoo ha malarkey like listening to my wife and her sisters discuss vajay stuff), or just to bitch out, I'm here
As for Secret Santa, I think we all love you running it, but it's a lot of stress and I don't think that helps things like this, so no hard feelings if someone else runs it Do what's best for you