Last weekend I spent with my girlfriend in IL. Things with her are far more complicated than this thread so I will just leave all that out. Monday I notice some power cords were left outside my backpack that I was sure I didn't leave out because I didn't use them. So I go downstairs and ask her if she went through my stuff (admittedly this is phrased poorly, I meant it more like "Did you need something"). She says no and gets angry about her parents doing it. She calls them, which I didn't know she was doing and didn't mean for her to do. Her parents say no and I believed them, I must have been mistaken and left it out myself. Later we get home and her parents flip out on her about asking, saying "It's disrespectful to even ask", "We have no reason to do that, why would you think we would", "What is he bringing into our house that he has to hide", and my favorite from her dad "Your brothers ipod is missing, maybe he took that". Now this is crazy to me. Her mom can nag and be annoying, but other than that her parents were some of the coolest people I've ever met. Everybody kept apologizing to me for them being so stupid. Her dad didn't speak to me after that, her mom was acting normal, but still angry today. I was leaving this morning and as I was saying goodbye to my gf, her dad told her that it was time for me to leave. I really don't want a bad relationship with them because I want a chance at a serious relationship with her. They are demanding an apology from her, but she won't give one because she doesn't think she did anything wrong. I'm wondering if I should or not.