I was at a party yesterday and was talking to this chick (she had a boyfriend) She just asked me random questions what kinda girls I like and if I was in a relationship.. When I told her i was never in one yet she said I was 'missing out' well I didn't really understand it but what do you think? I turn 23 in 2 weeks, have a job and pay for my own place, etc... Then when I asked her she said she doesnt "like working and thinks its a waste of time." I was like maybe shes stupid Anyway..... i THINK i am missing out a bit, but on the other hand I don't think I am? I want to try hitting up college bars once school starts. On the other hand I'm so set in my ways now that I am scared of change and modifying my way of life.