Dear Vaginiamuamiauarmajuanarium, So recently I decided to start dating primarly outside of my social circle. So far so good! Haven't had any like, huge sparks or anything up until recently but it is certainly a learning experience for me since I'm 26 and have generally only dated people I somehow knew. Fast forward about a week or two ago. Buddy says he thinks I am on sucky dry streak and need to meet this woman he knows from work. I'm like ugh blind date but I figure fuck it what have I got to lose? She turns out to be really, really rad. Totally not the type I've ever gone for before but we seem to hit it off and have a great night. I end up giving her a ride home, drop her off and were good. Next day I shoot her a text (got her number that night) 'Hey it was great to meet ya I had a great time' small talk etc. She responds with 'Thank you too I don't think I've ever laughed that much in one night!' (I'm thinking ding - goldmine at this point). The next night I was at a bar close to her place and said asked her if she wanted to roll out she says "Come pick me up, last call is soon so lets hit the store and hang out with my roommates at my apartment". We do that, hang out, I bail few hours later, great times. Talk to her once on like Tuesday when I texted her and that was it. Wednesday I go out to a bar with my buddies (christ, maybe I'm drinking too much lately) and I get a text from her "Are you with them?" and I was like "Yep" and she walks in 10 minutes later. We hang out a bit and eventually I have to leave with my buddies so I take off. When I end up txting her asking her how long she'll be there and she had already left. But then shes like "lets meet up somewhere" so we go out and we have a great time. It's the first time were really one on one so we actually have conversation that is worthwhile about our backgrounds, family etc. Goes great. We end up going back to her place, I crash there, we make out a bit whatever and thats it. I don't hear from her again. Fast forward to Saturday a bunch of us are going out and my bud mentions that she is coming again. Rad, she shows up to the bar and we hit it off again. She tells me she has to go to a party she isn't exactly stoked about but its the usual chick thing gotta show up save face etc. I say cool, show up, call me, I'll pick ya up. She says that sounds great and off she goes. Text her around 1230A saying let me know when to pick you up and she gets back to me saying I'll call ya in a bit. Around 2AM I'm driving my dunkass friends home and I text her again "Am I still picking ya up ?", never hear from her and I head home to pass out anyways. I haven't heard from her since, figured I might get a 'my bad' text or something along those line. She knows I'm out of town right now for business through Friday. Here is my question - in person, she shows interest. Good body language, the touches, etc. I make her laugh her ass off and what not. However, she has never made an attempt to contact me, I'm always contacting her. So I'm sort of feeling like that over aggressive dbag that women dread. Do I cut the text messaging bullshit and just call her and be like 'LET GO OUT SATURDAY' and if she shuts me down call it good? Or just leave it and assume since she never trys to get ahold of me she is not interested? One thing is maybe that she is one of those women who loves to be persued and won't give a guy the time of the day if he isn't going to put in the effort. Or maybe I'm going nutjob over analyzing since for once I'm actually enthusiastic about a female. Sorry for the novel.