So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, and we are both interested in moving out together within the next year or so. My question is... Is it smarter to live with him first then get married? Or is it morally wrong and more appropriate to move in after getting married or at least engaged? This may be a really dumb question, Im just wondering what everyones opinions are. I was hoping to get a little feedback from people that have been in this position and what came out of it.