(from a different thread unrelated to me, this is just what got me to thinking about talking about this) To what extent should a fellow deal with a girl (girl, young) seeing other people occasionally when they're in a friends with benefits arrangement? (=single) So in essence she has more than one fwb. A girl and I have been in this arrangement for 6 months since we're only allowed to see eachother every 2 weeks normally. We didn't see eachother for the last 2 months infact and she wants us to still be together even though she has fwb with another fella. So I said nay if you wanna be seeing me then don't be involved with other boys (stop with him and be my exclusive fwb, precisely). I like this cause either we move swiftly along with our unserious lives (I'm 19 and she's 17) or we continue down a happy path together, I don't need to tolerate something I really don't like (her seeing other fellas repeatedly). So, I'm ok with what I did (I don't even know what the story is yet, its complicated and I might feel like posting about it in the next few days), but is she a crazy hoe here considering what she was wanting? Any comments to this appreciated but this is also about the general question above ^. I treated this fwb as though we were single but if I started seeing someone else I'd make my mind up fairly lively about who to stop with, but, me and this girl had a pretty good connection and were looking at a relationship during the summer until it became clear her family weren't allowing this during her exam year. So, I think in a different situation I could tolerate a girl dicking around more, its just we had bigger plans and I think a lot of this one. Discuss & thanks vag.