I haven't talked to her since last August. She's texted me a few times over the last year but I always ignore them. This morning I wake up to see I have 8 new texts. I'm thinking holy crap. I open my inbox, and 7 of them are from my ex, and 1 is from my gf (she's saying "good morning baby!" awww ) So the 7 from my ex are actually one giant text (my phone displays them as separate txts cut off at the 160 character mark. I know some phones will show them as one giant text tho, which is probably less annoying). Anyway, they say this: Anyway, I deleted that text. So pretty much my ex didn't know how to be a good girlfriend. She was a party girl pretending to want a monogamous relationship. That text is all about her. Several times through our relationship she had "revelations" like after a fight or something she would be like "i've been thinking and I realized how much I want to be with you" or some shit like that. I think I actually fell for it twice. Live and learn, I guess. She also thought it was cool to be seeing and fucking this dude in a (nationally touring) band while she was still with me. I guess he was more "alpha" and "exiciting" than me. He was also like 12 years older than her (gross ) but then again my ex had daddy issues. When I found out about it, she actually tried to logically rationalize it to me And even funnier is that the whole time this was going on, she was telling me how much she "wanted to have a life with me" and wanted to move in together and all that shit Honestly, dating her is the only time in my life I've messed up and let someone's hotness blind me from actually seeing what their true personality is. But I got over it quick enough (finding out that she was seeing someone else helped a lot... but she was pretty sneaky because we were together 4 or 5 days and nights a week anyway, so to pull that off must have required some good planning on her part). Anyway, like I said, that text is all about her and how she misses the comfort that I provided her with. That's all it says even tho she tried to disguise it as something else. I have no doubt that if I were stupid enough to get back together with her that the same exact thing would happen again. In fact I bet that whole text was designed to get a reply from me which would give her the attention she wants. So like I said, fuck that. You can't make a whore into a housewife.