SRS My Ex is remarring...

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  1. mare

    mare New Member

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    Okay I'm not sure but new here...I'm getting the impression there is quite a younger crowd here than myself at 44 but any comments on this is greatly appreciated...

    I was married 16 years...seperated 3 before finally divorcing & 18 months after the divorce is finalized my ex is remarrying this New Year's Eve with all the bells & whistles!!!

    Fiance' is the woman I thought all along he had feelings for & had been mutual...he idn't admit to dating her until Feb & got engaged in Aug.

    I'm having a really hard time with this...I thought I was over him...I've been dating & going out with girlfriends & generally having fun but the fact that this woman is who he chooses & she will be my daughters' stepmom as well as sharing their dad with her 3 daughters is making me sick literally I could barf...I hate her...I hate him...I hate that this is happening....

    Has anyone been thru this...how'd you do it???
     
  2. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    My first long-term gf (of 3.5 years) just got married a few months ago. It felt weird because, even tho I was the one who ended it with her, I still miss her sometimes and I still have feelings for her. She never did anything to hurt me, so my feelings for her are more like I legitimately hope she ends up happy.

    I suppose that's not the same as your situation, tho.
     
  3. mare

    mare New Member

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    Well, we are on good terms becuz of my girls...& he has said he'd always care for me & wants me happy but he didn't want to reconcile & after divorcing "felt lonely"...I'd understand "undying love..or finding his soulmate" but lonely...HELL I'm fucking lonely too!!

    sorry..thx for your conmments!!
     

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