It's a messed up story, I'm afraid, one which might not really make any sense, or might even seem to be a bit sad in one way or another. I was with this girl for over a year, and I've never fallen for someone so hard in my life. Basically, we broke up, she was very angry with me and she found someone else. I moved on and never was able to keep a stable relationship for more than a week. I have always been a wreck about her leaving, and it's been very difficult to get over it at times. It always sort of comes back to haunt me. Anyhow, she wrote me an email yesterday. She said that she was sorry for what she had done. I learned that she had been with that guy up until two nights ago when he cheated on her or something. I'm pretty sure she can't have sex...so I can probably see why he would've done it. She told me that she thought i had hated her this whole time, and she had hated me a little bit as well...but regretted it and missed me. I regretted our break up as well and it was partially my fault too. She still loves me. She told me, and that she still misses me. Truth be told, I miss her too, and I curse myself for being unable to get over her. An entire YEAR has gone by and I haven't been able to be happy, or get her out of my mind. Can you imagine what that would do to a person? So she's there, she said that maybe we weren't ready in the past, but maybe later we would be. Maybe that's today. Maybe it isn't ever. She thinks about the wonderful times we had together, and I do too. Problem is, she is living in an apartment with the guy. I don't know much about what's going on, but I am not too concerned with it. She also has bad health problems (cysts in her ovaries, and two bad car accidents in the past year). I ask myself: what would a good person do? I am about to move 2000 miles away to start a job and live with my friend in an apartment and try to scratch out a new life over there. Should I take her with me? I am thinking of giving her the options the next time I talk to her: A) If she doesn't want to be with me, we cut off contact forever and go our separate ways. B) She stays in the state she lives in, but finds a new place to live, commits with me and we eventually move in together. C) She packs up and moves with me. A really horrible and minor thing broke apart the best thing I have ever had. I would swear up and down on my grave that I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with her. On second thought, it pains me a bit that she has been with someone else. Apparently she wasn't happy with it at all. I have a feeling she only stuck with that because she had nowhere else to go. I am sorry that this is so long. I am really torn, depressed, and I just want a solution. I either want her, or I want nothing to do with her. I am very unhappy and want to be happy. I've dated a million women and I cannot stop thinking about her. Please help. Thank you.