Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by hsugh knight, May 10, 2008.
she says she's just one of the guys, but still
is she just messing around or should i be concerned?
depends on if she does this only with u
What do you classify sexual banter?
When it comes to my husbands best friend, and subsequently a 'brother' to me, we talk dirty with each other all the time. I would never even joke about having sex with him or doing anything sexual with him, but I chat as 'one of the blokes' and we talk about sex and what not. The whole "That's what she said" is the hit at the moment
lol @ "one of the guys"
Ugh. Women/girls who think they are just "one of the guys" are the second most annoying things in the universe. Right after "i'm just different than other girls"
Assuming you mean the SO of another male friend, tell her it is inappropriate and needs to stop, and let your friend know.
If she's single though, and you like her, ask her out.
not true. there are some tomboys out there who are pretty cool
And i doubt they feel the need to point it out every few seconds.
What kinds of things does she say?
Does she touch you as well? If so, do you notice her saying/doing these things to the other guys?
yesterday at the BBQ i was eating some chestnuts and she's like hey, i want some hot nuts. i had em over and she leans up and whispers in my ear like, no, the other ones
bear in mind this is a girl that I don't even know that well.
she also kept pretending to be a groupie during Rockband and kept hanging off me. she does this to other guys but not to the same extent from what i've observed
she's just kidding. i couldn't imagine anyone saying that to be earnestly flirtatious.
:idhitit: ... but dont
If a girl is that forward with her mouth, I'd be blunt and give her my hot nuts or call her bluff if that was the case.
There's being blunt, and then there's sounding like a cheap whore.
I would give her a look of "please, you can act classier than that" if she were single.
If she were taken, I would give her a look of "You just made a complete fool of yourself".
I'm fine with a woman expressing interest, but there are better way than sounding like a really bad porn or junior high boy's fantasy.
So test it next time. You could have said lets go behind the bushes and I'll give them to you.. If she agrees then start heading back there like you're serious and see if she calls it off. If she never calls it off then you've got to address the issue asap.
I would never say something like that to a friend who I had no sexual attraction to. i don't think i could ever say that to someone I had a sexual attraction to, unless I was drunk.
She sounds like a tart
I have a friend who is like this with every guy.. she's just really flirtatious and has an excessively sexual sense of humor. some guys get the wrong idea and accuse her of leading them on, and this situation reminds me of my friend
or maybe it's something so outrageous that she doesn't expect to be taken seriously
i've had girls do this to me in the past.
they say stuff to try and get a reaction out of me because i'm always like this around them
I can't name more than a couple girls that I know that I don't have sexual banter with.
That's just how my friends are. Nobody takes it seriously if they're in a relationship, mostly because I talk my friends up a lot.
If you're upping the sexual tension and bashing your friend, then you have a problem-- or, actually, you ARE the problem
probably just a flirt. most women talk to most of the guys they know (if you are college age) in a flirtacious nature..just makes them feel desirable, even though they wouldn't want to be with most of, if not all of, the guys she talks to like that.
Sounds like she just wants attention. I'd say ignore it and if it really makes you uncomfortable than just call her out on it.
she's probably just flirtatious i guess
splater her face with your load and call it good.
my best friends gf is like that
luckily i've made it clear i'm not attracted to her in any way shape or form and shes backed off a bit. fucking slut