....my bday was sunday---but we were out to the clubs all saturdaynight long celebrating. and Sunday, she was at my house for a lil bit with my friends and family. Then when she left on sunday...she told me that she will take me out to dinner for my bday tomorrow (monday). so i said ok cool. the next day, i got a txt from her at 4pm saying "ive been thinking alot about us lately and im not happy" then i replied "ok, so now what?" then she called me and we talked....none the less---i couldnt handle my emotion and just told her to just END IT and NOT TO EVER CALL ME AGAIN or TALK TO ME. then i hung up. since then, she been calling me and txting me about 10times already. i didnt mind her not getting me anything for the ONE YEAR that we were together...i was just pissed coz she broke up with me the day after my bday---im sure her cheapass dont wanna spend money. anyways, it didnt really hurt as much as before since we broken up about 7times already and got back together. but now, i made my decision that THIS IS IT. NO MORE GOING BACK AND FORTH. but now, my question is.....why am i trying to find "another" girl to mess/be in a relationship with if i went thru this shit already----am i just hard headed? i dont think im stable to be single again. even though me and her only see each other once or twice a week---to me it was worth it. now i hvae nothing. no one to call in the morning---no one to txt back and forth during the day at work. and of coarse no more sex (not like i was getting alot anyways--but once a week for me was good enough.) what can i do to stay strong and get back on my feet and be on the game again?