Hey, just looking for some advice here.....a few weeks ago my gf went to a party and ended up cheating on me with another guy. Suposidly she fucked him twice, but she cant remember most of the night so who knows. Then she lied to me about who it was (even though I cld tell cuz of how she acted around him) and now continues to go over there at least 4 or 5 times a week. She goes to parties with him all the time, and gets drunk all the time. She even fucking sleeps over there WITH HIM in his bed....claiming they only "cuddle" and thats it. Well, isnt cuddling still bad enough? About us: we have been together for 5 years....we live together and she has 2 cats (she got them both, so their hers) Neither of us can afford to live on our own. She doesnt want to lose me cuz we have been together for so long. But she loves the fact that he gives her more cuddles and affection than I do. She also wants to start "seeing other people but remain together" kinda thing. Sorry this got so long. Any help/advice on what to do, or should I just end it??