Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by DaFreak963, Feb 22, 2009.
to study abroad and i cant sleep. I miss her so much, i dont know what to do.
How long has she gone for? Are you staying together?
Time to get a webcam and skype.
I'm deployed right now, 120 days away from newly married wife. Sucks man
Sucks sucks sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh well we'll all get through
Oh man, you're gonna lose it, aren't you?
How long is she gone?
Doesn't feel good man. My SO is at BCT right now and then to AIT. Not even being able to talk to her for a month is fail.
A year according to one of his threads on the matter.
Ouch, that's a long time.
damn. that's a long study abroad.
man, last night was bad. Drinking when you're down FTL. She's gone for a year. We're going to to the skype thing but I was so used to always seeing her and sleeping next to her
See it as a great time to flirt, get to know each other more and to do things you wouldn't normally get to do when she is there
Think positives, or else you will die
yeah I know. I just got a chance to talk to her on skype. I feel 100 times better
that's really rough man. I hope everything works out for you with as little pain as possible.
It sucks, man.
But in times like this you just dig deep and encourage her to really enjoy herself. A lot of emotions are stirred up in the person going abroad, so you need to be supportive but always willing to give her space.
It's very easy to feel smothered when you're in another country while having a SO. I did not go abroad but have been on extended stay in other places while with someone (not a year so I can't comment specifically on that).
Be excited for all the cool stuff she'll experience and tell her to send you post cards and stuff like that in addition to skype. Some couples have issues when certain things become too routine while abroad (like a phone call before bed every night, etc.)
And it's definitely the time for BOTH OF YOU to be experiencing new things. That's not necessarily meeting new people or anything, but pursue something you've always been really interested in. It will take your mind off of her and kill that extra time you have.
I know it's not exactly the same, but I've found sleeping with pillows on all sides of me helps with this.
1,068 troll posts and that was your first funny one. I actually laughed You're getting better.
Actually, you may have made another funny post sometime; I had you on my ignore list for months so I may have missed some.
so its been two weeks now but i dont feel anh better about her being gone. Dont get me wrong, im not crying at home but it still fucking sucks. My dad came to the us 2 1/2 years before we (mom and siblings) did but i have no idea how he did it. FU%^ing thing sucks
I just went through the study abroad thing with my boyfriend leaving. Now I can't totally relate...since this was only a 6 week deal, but I can tell you that the first two weeks sucked a lot more than the rest of the time. Just start developing your own routine, kind of like you're single again (minus the seeing other people part). Life will start stabilizing without her (don't get me wrong, having those 'zomg missing you!' moments will still happen), but if your relationship is strong it shouldn't bother you to do this.
A year is a long time...I hope you're not putting your life on hold for this next year because of her. Sometimes I had a tendency to do that...like I wouldn't go out because I'd think he might call at that time or something (only he was able to call me). Just live your life and it'll go by much faster. =) good luck!
My SO has been gone for about 7 weeks and honestly I think you hit a point where you won't really feel any better. That's not to say that you should mope around because you shouldn't. You just kind of find your own routine, and staying busy helps a lot, unless by staying busy its doing things you did together squint, but I just found a level where I just deal with it even though it sucks. The past week though I've been feeling much better because I get to go see her in a couple weeks.
find a mistress and fuck her on teh side. she's prob doing the same thing. real talk.
OR just break it off and get back with her when she gets back. i know you cant help to think whats she doing on the other side. you're gonna go crazy. have a clean "break" with her and meet other girls in the meantime. i mean, how long is she gonna be gone? you eventually need some pussy sooner or later.
isn't life one hell of a ride?