I know this is silly, but I am very close with my dad and my sister and brother, and my uncles and aunts (all 5 of them) and grandfather and we frequently have family parties, etc etc. My gf puts little to no effort into going at all, even though my family is never rude to her. She will even sit at home and do nothing and will refuse to go, and wait for me to get home. I know it's not a huge deal but they're my family and weve been dating for a year now and i'm moving into her place and shes met my dad like 3 times and puts no effort into getting to know my family. Her father is gay, and ill agree to go on double dates with him and his partner for god sakes, and she cant compromise with me? Is there anything I can do about this? It really bothers me.