I have been dating this chick for 2 months first time we did it and she started bleeding she said its because im too big. She felt emberessed and kind of bad. She hasnt had sex for over a year. She is 23 years old. She said all her other guys were about 6 inches. She said its too thick and long. I feel bad can we work our way around this? She said its going to take time....well im 21 and I fucked the same girl for pretty much 3 years. This is something new what to do?