She went to a party out of state this Saturday night, got drunk, and ended up giving a friend of hers oral. When she hasn't even gone that far with me yet. I feel like me and her have a strong connection, things were great prior to this (with room for improvement like any relationship) even in the short time we have actually been together. (only 2 weeks) I enjoy so many things about her, and there are very few things about her that I actually dislike which is leads me to lean towards forgiving her because I don't want to look back and see that maybe we could of gotten past this and had a great relationship. On one hand I see that its an unintentional action, a mistake. Things happen when people get caught up in certain environments. That's fine. On the other hand she told me she wouldn't drink much because she was the one being responsible at the party with her friends. Not only did she go against her word but she also cheated on me. I've had assumptions of an ex of mine cheating on me (when we were together of course) but that was never clarified. This is the first time I've actually known it, this girl told me once she came back and I don't even know what to do. I can't get rid of this feeling of insecurity and betrayal. I'm coming to terms with it more and more day by day, its better with me today than it was yesterday but this is something I'll never forget. I like her too much to really despise her and have resentment. I want to forgive her because I believe its an honest mistake especially if she is sincere when she apologized, atleast enough to tell me face to face. I'd much rather overcome this with us together, rather than live with this pain on my own. I understand that if I forgive her...I'm accepting the fact it can happen again. I have faith that it will not happen again though the possibility is still there. I also understand that a mistake is once, twice and it's a pattern. I also understand that maybe I could be better off without her...considering the circumstances. I think I just need sometime to let this really blow over and let it become manageable. Has anyone been in this situation before? Have you forgiven or let go? Are you ok with that decision and how did it work out for you? Please, anyone help. I'm at a loss for words and I don't even know how to feel anymore. What do I do?