I've always been very careful about being protected with condoms during sex. I have alot to lose right now if something were to happen and she got pregnant. She knows this. Today she told me that she wanted me to just try it without a condom, just for 2 seconds to see what I was missing. I told her no, and she got upset. She thinks I'm being too paranoid about it. BTW, she's not on BC. Not only do I think it's not worth the risk, but I think its unfair to me. It would be like saying "Look how delicious this cookie is. Chew it, but don't swallow it. You'll only be allowed a short taste. " Except, it'd be on a much more intense scale. Am I correct in thinking like this, or am I wrong? I'd like to think of it as mature, but some might think I'm just a big pussy.