I looked through the Q and A thread, but I feel there are too many factors involved that make me feel that she is not. During our time together, she was taking birth control everyday, I watched and made sure she was. She got sick from her brother apparently, but then got her period. A week ago, she tell's me that she's late, and still hasnt' gotten her period, and that day she says she was supposed to get it, was the last day of her BC (non placibo). Part of me thinks that she had a really light one though. So just this last saturday, she took a home test which told her it was negative. She just called and told me she went to a doctor anyway, and they said that "somethings wrong," and she has to wait for blood test results. Here are some things she's told me before, one thing in particular, is that while she was not on BC, she once had a period that was 2 months late. On top of that, she gained about 30lbs since then. The weekend that she said she was late, I took her down to disney for the weekend, but she had very little sleep at all, and I feel that all of the stress acted on her that day. So I don't know at this point, I feel that she's not, her older sister who's already had 2 kids, thinks shes not. Either way, she's decided on her own that if worst case, she's getting an abortion.