serious post, but sort of a non-serious dilemma every sex dream i have ends badly. i'm a virgin and i am full of self-doubt when it comes to being a man and spreading my seed...could this be subconcious just be reminding me of this? example dreams: i was in a public bathroom when this girl just bursts into my stall and grabs my wang. i instantly develop a stomach ache and i run away... i was outside in a terrible storm (hurricane i think) when this attractive woman offers me a place safe from the storm. i go into her house and she gets naked...i turn around to hang up my coat because i want a piece of that ass, and when i turn back around...she's gone... i actually get this girl into my bed, and i stick it in...but it felt like taking off wet swim trunks...then she disintegrates and i hear her voice from outside saying "MY MOM SAYS DONT BREAK MY HEART" now, asylum goers......what the hell?