So I am not with the mother of my son, and when I have him, I some of the times have other stuff planned also. So I kind of divide my time, doing things with him, and the stuff i had planned, but usually i feel so guilty for 'pawning' him off on my mom (although she seems to love it) that i dont really have a good time, and i am worried about running into him mom. i dont really know what to do. I feel like i am so selfish but in the same breath i am missing him and thinking about him constantly. I guess i just feel like his mom has moved on and has a new boyfriend, and i dont have anyone to share my life with (other than my son) and i feel like i need to go out and find someone that might fit that bill. help?