Took long enough! We've been talking for a while about finding another guy for her. We've done it before but it was a while ago and the search for someone like that is difficult. What are the odds that it seems to have fell into our lap (pun intended) this weekend? We met the guy at a club. We were the only ones there in our Halloween costumes and the guy came up to compliment us. He ended up sticking around and chatting with us for a while. My wife and I disappeared for a few and I asked her if she was attracted to him (I could tell she was). We ended up hanging out with him after the club. While we were at his place I brought the idea to him so he'd be in the loop if anything happened...not that night of course but in the future. Even though that night did get mildly interesting we'll have to get to know him better before anything really takes off. Wish us luck!! To answer the usual first round of questions: no, the guy and I don't touch; no, I don't get jealous; it is not a relationship between them more like a FWB situation between 3 people; yes, we have done this before but it's been a long time.