OK, here's the situation. My long-time g/f and I broke up like 5 months ago. We stayed friends, and after about 2 weeks, decided to give things a chance as fuckbuddies. Things have been great since, until about 3 weeks ago. I got back in touch with an ex from like 6 years ago. She's got a daughter now, and a husband, which isn't working out like she'd planned. In fact, within a month of getting married, she was thinking of me, and how she should've went for someone like me (last time we talked, I was with the long-time g/f.)... Now the ex is engaged to a guy in FL (her ex from 11 years ago she never got over), and I'm planning on marrying the girl I recently got back in touch with....as soon as she's divorced. Yes, the husband knows she's leaving, he and I are cool, no issues there. NOW for the hard part...the fuckbuddy issue. Her new man is 4 states away and won't be up here for a month (and that's just a week-long visit). My new girl is still married, and I won't do anything with her until the divorce is final. Is it ok to still keep the ex around as a fuckbuddy? The whole reason we lasted so long is the chemistry in bed, and...well....we're not married, and we're not dead. I don't see an issue with it...but for the sake of openness and loyalty, I'd like to approach the topic with everyone involved. How can I do this? Coming straight out and asking won't work, obviously....is there a nice way to approach the topic?