i have been wanting to either a frenum or a PA. i have quite a few questions about it first. i've been reading a lot of posts and talking to different people about it. me and my current girl are very sexual and normally have sex as much as possible. i know it's going to be a little while before we're able to have sex due to the healing process which is fine. my concerns are actually having sex with either or the piercings. my girl fits my dick like a glove and i don't want anything to pull or grab when we're having sex. she likes to do it hard and fast and i'm afraid something might get ripped out. also she loves to use her hands or give me blowjobs. i like the look of a frenum better but i'm afraid that it could get ripped out easier. i've also heard that a PA heals quicker and it more sexually appealing for both people versus a frenum. please give me all your insight b/c i might go get it done tonight. if your nice i'll post pics.