First off I want to preface this quest for advice by saying my wife and I have been married for nearly eight years and have an incredible relationship. I highly doubt there are very many married couples who feel the way about each other that we do. I can honestly say we love each other more all the time. I say this so there is no question about our relationship. Anyways... a couple months ago we had a heart to heart about our sex life and what we both liked, didn't like, would like to try, frequency, etc... (We were on a trip a trip out of town without our kids for the first time in a long time and actually had the time and ability to have a truly adult conversation.) We both admitted that we would like to have more frequent sex. I told her that I really enjoy when she is dominant and incorporates bondage and would even like to try the anal route as a form of humiliation. She said that was fine with her, but she did not want to play that role all of the time as she enjoys being submissive sometimes as well. We both agreed that made sense and clarified a few things before moving onto another conversation. Now here is my issue: since the talk, sex is no different from her angle than it was before. I took mental inventory of the things she has told me and have made sure to incorporate some of those things into the bedroom, but it is as if we never had the conversation on her end. During sex she talks dirty and tells me about how she wants to dominate me, but nothing ever happens. The conversation was a little tough to have the first time around so I don't know what I should do. Should I give her more time or does some one have another suggestion? Thanks in advance for any feedback.