I have asked quite a few relationship advice questions here, and most of the responses I got helped quite a bit. I am in a situation out of the ordinary, and need some answers... I know a few of you might remember my other questions I had, that were pretty stupid situation questions, so forget those. Here is my dilemma: I have been going out with this girl Allison now for about 6-7 months. She is absolutely gorgeous, smart, has a straight head on her shoulders, and knows exactly what she is doing for her life. She is 17 years old, but has the maturity of someone about 20 or so. I am 20 years old, dropped out of High School, been a pothead for the last few years (just recently I quit smoking pot by about 95%), I live with my mom, I bounce from job to job...etc. Those are my negative qualities...Fo the positives, I am very smart regardless that I dropped High School, I am very very funny, and I have a sensitive side like most guys never get. So here it is: I live in Oregon right now, and am moving to California in about a month to live there and work...basically get away from all the people that slow me down from straightening my life out here. Allison is finishing up High School, and is moving down to California at the end of August where she will attend College down there. For the most part, me and Allison are great together...I make her laugh, she makes me happy, I make her feel good about herself, and she makes me happy. I asked her about staying together after I leave because she is moving down to Cali about 5 months after me, and we'll be about 7 hours driving distance from each other. Her response: No, she wants to "experience" a new life and have no ties with anyone when she goes to college. I hated hearing that, but after hearing from multiple sources, that she is only being honest with me, and that is wrong for me to be mad at her for giving me those reasons. I told her I loved her one night for the first time, and she couldn't say it back...I haven't cried for years, but that made me cry for a long time...I'm sure alot of you have felt that. So I have another month here, and I want to spend every one of those days together, especially weekends. Every single weekend she goes out and parties with her friends, and never invites me...even though I BEG her to stay with me some weekends. For example tonight she's going to party with a whole bunch of guys and girls, and doesn't invite me. I offereed instead to make her dinner and just have an intimate night with me, but she says "No, I already had plans" but she never is willing to make plans with me. I don't know what to do...she doesn't care about me as much as I care about her, and if I were to be like "I don't think we should eb together anymore" I KNOW she would get over it in less than 24 hours, where as I will want to call her and change my mind in a couple days. Obviously it isn't working, and in a month it won't work anyway because we will be so far from each other...She says we should just be happy with the time we DO spend...but that's usually for about an hour a day, maybe 2...just hanging out. No sense of intimacy, just the basic "Hey, how was your day" stuff. Should I just go along with the being happy with the couple hours we see each other a day, even though it's usually going to the park, or somethign else that's wide open in the public? Or should I understand that it's going to be over in a month anyway, and just let her go and deal with it - and if that is the case...how do you get over someone? I know time heals everything, but the first couple weeks are so painful. If anyone took the time to read all this, thank you, and please give me some kind of advice...and I know I left out important information, so if any questions, feel free to ask. Thank you so much.