when i was a jr. (16-17 yrs old) i was going out with a sr. in high school. we were going out for about 5-6 weeks and then it started getting intimate. i was pretty shy, but she was aggressive and more experienced than me so she usually made the first moves. well, one night after watching a movie, we went to hang out at an isolated hill area where no one was. i thought we would just make out and stuff, but she brought a condom and wanted to sex it up. i was really nervous because i was still a virgin, but thought this was a great opportunity. i liked her a lot and she seemed to like me a lot. so the whole experience was a little awkward, but i did the deed and felt pretty good. the next day she calls me and breaks up with me - and her reason was that i couldn't "please" her sexually. she was basically saying that i have a small weiner and thats why she was breaking up with me. after that experience, i have never been able to get intimate with a girl (7 years). i had a few girlfriends after her, but i could never get intimate with them because i would think of this girl and think that the girl wouldn't like me or break up with me because i couldn't please her. i feel like i can't live a normal life because of the shit that this girl did to me. i was just wondering if anyone has been in a situation that is similiar to mine and how you overcame it.