I thought this would be fitting for a first post on OT. I've been lurking in this forum quite a bit and noticed that everyone here always has good advice to give. I'm 19, and my girlfriend just turned 18. We have been together for roughly 6 months. Basically, I have an anger problem that I have trouble controlling. I get pissed off at little things, and I tend to punch walls, I shattered the windshield of my truck, broke 2 knuckles one time. Sometimes it's worse than others, but its not always that bad. Usually it is because of Arizona's horrible drivers. I tend to get pissed off very easily when driving, since I've been in 4 not at fault accidents, and two were with illegals that didn't have insurance or even registration. That's another story though. My girlfriend is scared that I'm going to either piss the wrong person off, or Im gonna lose it and hit her. I could never touch a lady, and I never have in the past. But it's still something that concerns her. Last night, she told me she was having doubts about us, mainly because of the way I act. She said she's still in love with me, and she still loves me, but doesn't know if she can go on in a relationship like this. She also told me about other problems I had that were hard for her to deal with. I always seem to think something is wrong. I constantly ask her if something is wrong, or if something's bugging her, and I ask to the point where she gets irritated. We always worked through it, and every time I think back on it, I realize that I shouldn't have been asking her so much, and that nothing was wrong to begin with. So last night, after we talked, she told me she would give me another chance, but for now, we couldn't see eachother as much. She's leaving for California for two weeks on Saturday, so it'll be a while before I actually do see her again. I figure this is a good time for us to be apart, and it will give me time to fix what I've done wrong in the past. She told me that I'm still going to be the first one to see her when she gets back, and she still wants to come over and stay with me the night she gets back. OT, what can I do to control my anger problem? I don't want to lose this girl. She means alot to me, so I need to change up some things in my life. She told me she didn't want to try to change me, but I want to change to be a better person for her. Do you think I've already lost her?