***This thread was bumped by my dumb ass 3 years later. The following is old but needless to say, I didn't listen to OT and ended up with 3 years of crap (finally done though) and thus my desire to bump stemming from my admittance of failure. That is all. Nothing more to see here.*** OK. Here's the story. My girlfriend has hooked up with an exorbitant amount of people in the past. She cheated in her last relationship. Call me crazy for getting into a relationship with her, but I couldn't help it. I really was crazy about her. At first, I had trust issues, but I really built up trust with her. As far as I know she never did, and still hasn't cheated on me. At least, in most senses of the word, she hasn't. But right now trust issues have come up. Basically one of the guys she hooked up with, Joel, has come back out of the woodwork. This guy has always been trying to flirt with her. I never thought she reciprocated (stupid me). My girlfriend and I got in a fight a couple weeks ago, and suprise, this guy was there to try and get on the rebound. He asked her out to a movie, party, etc. We worked things out though, and she never did anything with him except go to a couple lunches (from what I know). I even asked her if she still wanted him. She said he was too young and that he was no good in bed. She fed me lines about how she loved me so much and would never do anything with him. So the other day she's at my house, checking her email. I saw over her shoulder she got a myspace message from this guy, Joel. I ask her why she would be getting messages from him. She brushes it off. So this morning, my curiosity gets the best of me. I logged into her mypsace (we've had a trust issue in this area once before, but really if there's nothing to hide, why would it matter if I logged into anything? Normally I use her password for good. I usually fix the html on her myspace or livejournal for her and that's that). She's got one of those retarded surveys where you ask someone what they think about you. Sent to Joel... Here it is... ----------------------------------------------- Name: ****** Age: 20 Location: just a few minutes away Height: 5'6" Hair (color and style): medium length dark brown Eyes: dark brown Piercings/tattoos: ears double pierced, navel OTHER: 1. Where would we go on dates? hmmm your pool? your bed? Qdoba? that about covers it :-o 2. Who are three of your favorite bands/artists? Death Cab for Cutie, Lovedrug, Something Corporate 3. Do you drink/smoke? yes/now and then 4. Do you like the beach? yes 5. If so...would you go with me late at night? anything you want, cutie 6. Do you like movies? mais oui! 7. If so would you stay up and watch them with me all night? how about we "watch them" until we get too busy doing 'other things; 8. If you were to take me out to a movie would we watch the movie? we damn well better if I'm gonna pay $8, I'm gonna watch the damn movie... *lol* j/k we can make out a little too 9. If not what would we be doing? balancing our checkbooks? 10. Do you play an instrument? sorta 11. If so...what? piano (a little bit), guitar (6 chords *lol*) 12. Would you call me right after we saw each other to make sure I made it home alright? hmm probably not, because I'm too much of a bitch. haha! 13. How would you rate your hugs from 1-10? 4 'cause I give half-assed hugs, but my boobies are nice 14. Favorite body part on a gurl/guy? girl - legs and breasts, guy - arms, abs, and upper back muscles 15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself? oh how to choose?! my intelligence, my capacity for forgiveness, my ability to make fun of myself, and we can't forget my sexy ass 16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, player, slut)? succubus? but no no I'm done with that. now I am sweet and innocent. tee-hee. 17. Would you give me kisses just because? sure! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO *mwa* What Would You do if... I cried: rub your back and bring you tissues I said I liked you: "I like you too, Joely" I kissed you: slap you... I have a bf, damnit! I wanted to have sex with you: giggle and bat my eyelashes flirtatiously I touched your ass: spank you I was hospitalized: come visit you and make you get well cards I ran away from home: call you and convince you to come back I got in a fight and you were there: root for ya I got dumped: rebound sex?! haha I pissed you off: glare venimously What Do You Think Of My... Personality: A+ for you Mr. Laid Back man meat Eyes: purty Face: awww so cute Hair: good, but I liked it when it was a teensy bit longer on top Clothes: too stylin for your own good Voice: a little bit monotoned and condescending Humor: teeheeehahahahahahaha Choice of music: ok Manners: good Friends: too many crazy chicks, otherwise good Decisions: reasonably good, you learn from your mistakes probably even better than me (not saying much though I guess) Would You... Be my friend: duh! Tell me the truth no matter what: yes Buy me a birthday gift: sure if I have $ Lie to make me feel better: only if the truth would make you feel REEEAAALLY bad Spread rumors about me: naw never Go out at 4am to get me chocolate: haha what's in it for me? Keep a secret if I told you one: of course, silent as the grave Loan me some cash: if I had $ Hold my hand: awww yes Keep in touch: uh huh Make me a snack: yup Try and solve my problems: hows about I help you talk out your problems? I think that's better Love me: I ♥ joely! Makeout with me: been there, done that, but ya I probably would Hold me in times of need: I'm there for ya Ditch me: nope Use me: nope Ask me out: doubtful Date me: don't think so Makeout with me whenever you had the chance: hmmm possibly Hold me and make my problems go away: see above W0ULD Y0U...  go out with me? [X] give me your number? [X] kiss me? [X] let me kiss you? [X] watch a movie with me? [X] take me out to dinner? [X] drive me somewhere [X] make love to me? [X] take a shower with me?  be my gf/bf? [X] hug me? [X] buy me food? [X] take me home to meet your parents? [X] would you let me sleep in your bed if i didn't have one? [X] sing car karaoke w/ me? [X] sit in the doctors office with me because I didn't want to go alone?  re-post this for me to answer your questions? [X] give me a piggyback ride? [X] come pick me up at 3 am because my car ran out of gas in the middle of nowhere D0 Y0U... [X] think im cute? [X] want to kiss me? [X] want to cuddle with me? [X] want to hook up with me? ARE WE...  aquintences? [X] friends?  in a relationship?  gonna have kids? AM i... [X] smart? [X] cute? [X] funny? [X] cool? [X] intersting to talk to? HAVE Y0U EVER... [X] thought about me? [X] thought there might be an "us"? [X] thought about hookin up with me? [X] found yourself wanting to kiss me? [X] wished i were there? ARE Y0U... [X] happy you know me?  mad at me?  thinkin bout me?  going to repost this so that i will return the favor? ------------------------------------------------------ So it's not that she's cheated with him, but she has most definitely lied, covered up truths, and brushed things off. I'm not cool with this. I'm not cool with hardcore flirtation. This is not the way I expect a lasting relationship to be. This does not show commitment or dedication to me or the relationship. I'm guessing you'll all agree, but I just wanted to be sure. CLIFFS: Girlfriend sends flirtatious myspace survey to old hookup. See survey. Dump? Most likely.