Evening all. First time posting in here but have been trollign for a while. So about 3 years abo I meet this girl, we become fast friends, eventually close friends, and best friends, at one point she started calling me her 'twin' cause we were so much alike (a few people have said this too) So recently we've been pretty distant because she has a boyfriend. That happens, I know. Ive been trying to go out for a night with her seeing as we havent for over a year or so. Asked her out two weeks ago to the day, got a 'not sure yet'. fine, no problem. come Friday, I remind her again, she said she's still not sure and will let me know. Dont hear from her, but come Monday I see that she went out with her group of friends. Not amused. bring it up to her and she says she's sorry, and that I shouldve called her. Asked her out again that day for the weekend past, got the same 'not sure' answer come Friday I ask her again and now she's telling me that she's going out with her friends and I should tag along. wtf. once again not amused. started arguing, she basically doesnt want to go out unless its with her group of friends, literally told me she's not going out with anyone knowing her friends are out somehwere else when I ask her why, all she says is 'that's just the way it is' yesterday, tried talking to her in a calm way about why she doesnt like going out with me alone, couldnt get a thing out of her, just the same "thats just the way it is" then seh starts ignoring me, saying she's miserable. Fine. contact her again today and get the same treatment. Fianlly got fed up and told her that she's acting like a bitch when I'm trying to maturely fix things, and that I wont waste any time on her anymore, and to call me when she grows up. So, who is wrong here? Am I being a bit too pushy? Bear in mind, I've been out with her and her frends before, and hated it. They're from a different lifestyle, and whenever I tag along I feel left out, and she does nothing to help it. She also has a boyfriend, who I know as well, but am not a big fan of. But had she brought him up as the reason for the problem I'd understand, somewhat. After all, we've been friends from long before they met - they been together for abotu a year now. Sorry for the long post.