OK I am that guy that has had all kindsa screwed up relationships, and I have friends that are always trying to "help" me out, Tonight for instance I my friends decided that he was going to make me "Grow a pair". See I HATE yelling at girls trying to get there number, he says if I cant yell at a girl to get her number how can I get a number at a party. I told him yelling at a girl that you just pulled up next to and asking for a number is awkward for both of you, where as at a party your both there for a reason. Am I incorrect? Granted I have lower self esteem then most guys due to a string of really fucked up relationships but thats a whole nother post.