Have been having some endocrine problems leaving my libido and penis in poor shape. I am 25 and the docs think I have primary hypogonadism and I haven't been put on Test yet. As you can imagine this strains a relationship. Well for the past couple days my GF has been distant. I pointed out to her and I have noticed a pattern. She hasn't touched me in any kind of affectionate manner for the past 5 days, but does all the normal GF stuff. She has done this in the past and I ask WTF is up? How come she can't show me any affection? She says she is not interested. Then she told me would rather masturbate then have bad sex with me, which means zero sex for me. That kind of added a dumptruck load to my current inadequacy pile. It boils down to sex is a way I show her I love her and now we have zero intimacy and she is okay with it. I am not. I feel like she is only loves the way I make her physically and when she can't have that too bad for me. How the fuck do I talk to her about this?