It's long so bare with me, crappy cliffs at the bottom. I've been going with this girl for well over two years now. A quick synopsis: She was my 3rd girlfriend, and 2nd girl i had sex with. I was her first, but she had a few other boyfriend before me. I am 21, she is 23 and just finished graduating from University. I still have two more years left. I was never the type of guy to take advantage of girls, and I was never interested in being the type to have one night stands and sleep around with many girls, so i've never done that. I waited until I found a girl I thought I really digged to lost the V card, unfortunatly that relationship didn't last too long after. My current girlfriend seemed like she was everything I ever wanted, smart, beautiful, mature, a golfer, etc. She was a dream for me, and surprisingly I was able to get start a relationship with her. The relationship took a turn for the worse last summer when i took a trip with the guys to vegas. Not that anything happened out there, she just didn't want me to go and I still did. Just lately my feelings for her have been changing, I just dont' feel as attracted to her as I used to, my sex drive has decreased, and I find myself wanted to see other girls. I feel like I want to go out and have those one night stands, go out and get hammered and go home with whoever. I've been in this relationship for over 2 years, and I just seem bored with it now. B I think this is partly because she has been very negative lately, or depressed i guess. She had tough times with school, she has been fighting with her family and can't wait to move out, and her part time job she has now she hates. I've been listening to her everyday for the past 2 years complain about how she hates her work, i guess im finally sick of it. I know these things are all temporary because they should be over with soon, once she gets a career job she can move out, and quit her part time job. It just feels like i can't wait anymore. I'm confused, she doesn't want to take a break from the relationship, she thinks its either you want to be with me or you dont'. So i have to make a decision, and right now I'm leaning more towards ending it, but we had such a good thing when we first started dating, I love her and care about her so much... i just dont' know what to do. help OT Cliffs: First long time girl, she lost V card to me. Goign out for over 2 years... i've become bored, and feel like I want to go out and just party and sleep with whoever (I never did this before her, but i feel like i want to know what its like). But i still love her and care for her alot. she doens't want to take a break .. its either on or completely done with.