I'm married with two kids. Currently living with my parents. 24 yrs of age. male. My wife cheated on me last yr and has been with this fellow off and on since. I say off and on cause 2 times in that yr she has came crawling back to me begging forgiveness. I can forgive her. But I try to tell her that if we were to make a go at it again, it would have to start at the begining(dating). Reason being, I dont really trust her. If she can go back to him, who's to say she wont leave me again. If were dating, we can begin to fall in love again, the same way we fell in love 7 yrs ago. Anyhow, she is going through a lot right now. I think about her everyday. I just dont know if she feels the same way as me. I love her to death. And i want to work things out, but im scared of what she will do. I can't be hurt again like that. It's too much pain. Hell, I don't even know why Im saying that cause I dont know how she feels about me. I need some reassuring advice people. Thanks.