Ok, first of all, the lady is someone who treats me better then my parents do, so I call her mom. She has a 17 year old daughter (who has interest in me), and the mom and I talk all the time about things in general. The reason I seem "mean" I guess in the beginning, is because she tells me stuff about her daughter, that her daughter would probably never tell me. Today she IM'ed me with... Mom: please don't tell Jamie but I am really worried about her right now formated2fiturTV: pat formated2fiturTV: seriously formated2fiturTV: i don't like knowing all this stuff about her Mom: ok forget it formated2fiturTV: now you're gonna get mad Mom: no I am not getting mad I just need help and I don't know what to do any more formated2fiturTV: then what is it... Mom: no it ok formated2fiturTV: why formated2fiturTV: just tell me before i change my mind Mom: now I am crying I am soooooo worried about her Mom: did you read her xanga she has on her im formated2fiturTV: i know better then to read those things Mom: well I need to we had problems with her about a year ago and we got her help but now she is doing it again formated2fiturTV: so get her help again? Mom: she is cutting her self Mom: well is still going but only one time a month Mom: and I don't think she is telling her everything ------ I have no idea what to tell this woman. I worry about her, just as much as I would a parent, and she's obviously having issues with this. Anyone know what I should say, where I can get either of them help, etc?