Where to begin.... I've been dating a nice girl for several months, she say's she is in love and honestly appears to be so. But I don't trust her. I don't really have a reason not to trust her though. My last GF I felt in love with then one day totally out of the blue she said she wanted out.. I was pretty devastated and shocked because just the night before it seemed so perfect and normal, so since then I've always been scared about relationships just ending at the drop of a dime, without warning. Now I do like this girl but I'm far from being in love with her, I love to see her happy, love to spend time with her but I can't open up to her and I'm keeping myself from falling in love with her because I can't trust her and don't wan't to get hurt. So basically I'm wasting time, going nowhere with her. But I think I'd feel the same with any girl. I do think I want to love her but like I said, I'm scared to. Help?