background: dated this grl for 2 years, became friends w/benefits for couple months, now the relation ended in bad terms. i told her off and said i didnt want to see her no more because i just didnt want to deal with her. so its day 2 and im still thinking about it throughout the day; at work and school. i still having feelings for her and im having a difficult time to beat this feeling. i just cant help myself but get a little jealous if she were to talk with another guy. the sex was great and she did care for me (one of my and her close buddies said she truly loves/loved me), but i had to end it all last night because she was disrespectful and rude to my friends and even family members at some point (not just that day, within the last couple months). she was too jealous of me talking to ANY female friend, me going out with the guys doing our thing, clubbing in general, disrespectful to my female friends, etc. Every female friend of mine has asked why does she [ex] look so mad/down/sad/angry. so i didnt want to deal with it and neither should my friends/family. at the moment, im feeling a little depressed and down because of this. what i have done so far is talk to other girls, focus on school, work part time, gym, go out with my friends to clubs/bars, and keeping myself occupied with hobbies. its been working fairly well but still trying to get over it. what advice can you give me? what should i do to get over her quicker? my close friend said to not talk or see her for 3 consecutive days and it'll make it easier to forget about her. it sounds logical but it just so happens we both saw each other at the club (we didnt talk) eariler today!