Some may remember my thread about hitting it off with my neighbor, as in lives 5 ft across the door from me. Well, everything has gone awesome. We took it slow, which ended up being the right decision. Before Thanksgiving we went out late, just me and her, for a drink after we had both been out. Long story short.... she comes on pretty hard. Says she likes me a lot, I tell her the same etc.... Get back to my place, make-out and more, and she is getting way into it and saying things like "I've waited so long to kiss you." I'm like nice this is great. She goes home at about 4am. So the next time we talk, I can tell she is a little off. She says shes sorry she came on so strong. I was kinda surprised and was like, we've known each other for 3 months now how did we come on too strong? Then she says that she is not ready for a dating relationship, which I never mentioned at all, because she broke up with here boyfriend at the beginning of the year and for right now wants to keep doing what we have been. I was confused, but at this point, she is still my neighbor and the last thing I'm gonna do is push. We let it happen naturally over time and it worked so.. I just don't know how I should play this. I know shes into me and I'd like for her to clarify what she is really feeling but I kinda feel like in time things will come together. I really feel like she is definitely hung up on dating as neighbors. Right before we started to get physical that night I'm pretty sure she said something like "I don't know if this is a good idea." What does vag think? Never in my life have I had to deal being this close all the time to someone I really like alot.