Girl in the middle Been talking to this new girl for a couple days now. Ive got a profile on a dating website from crazy long time ago and someone had sent me a message and I happened to notice it, I click on it ... and this girls pic was in the top, so I clicked it, started talking to her, and well. Thats it. I know some stuff about her, she seems pretty funny, I think shes crazy adorable... but I cant really tell whats going on. I tried inviting her out the other night to goto my dads for a few drinks and hot tub but she declined cause "we hardly know each other" ... ok, I understand. But like, how does one get to know someone without hanging out? I mean sure I can talk to her on the computer and through email, call her... but what if hanging out, im just complete stiff and shes not interested? She got out of a 3 year relationship so im sure she doesnt want to like rush into something serious, but what should I do? Offer up dinner and a movie? Continue talking to her and hope she warms up? Feel so outta place with womenz lately. OT, helps me!