So the other day this girl sends me a message from myspace. Tells me im cute and if I want to talk to send her a message back. I look at her page and I think shes cute to. We send a couple messages back and forth and she seems pretty cool. Has a job, goes to school, responsable. She says we need to get together, so I said cool and she tells me she will be around where I live the next day in the mourning (she lives prob bout 25 miles from me and becuase of a run in with the cops I dont have a car atm cuase it got towed and I dont got the money to get it out.) Anyways im between jobs right now so for the last couple weeks I just am at home (suppost to start new job monday ) So I call her the next day and she shows up. From her myspace her pictures were in between, she was gonna be ugly or hot. To my amazment she was pretty hot ) ) I was gonna take my buddies mustang to get some maintance on it. I show her my apartment and we head off. It was a glorious day so it was pretty cool. Get there to the oil change place my friend uses and end up its a 2 hour wait. We walk around and I take her to lunch and we talked and stuff. My problem is I dunno like which way to go with her. Like I cuss alot and I try not to but it just comes out becuase of who my friends are. I didnt cuss much then she cussed and I was like ok she isnt a total prude. Which I didnt really care if she was or not. If she was I thought she was hot and cool and didnt want to be some jackass and screw it up off the bat. So after walking around and stuff I learn stuff about her and she learns stuff about me and I just keep thinkin to myself she is a cool person. Anyways after the oil change finally gets done shes like we are real close to my house wanna go see where I live. So im like sure its great day and I got my friends mustang (I drive a big truck) so I wouldnt mind just cruising around some. We get to her house and she just moved into this run down POS trailer. (Ive lived in a trailer so its not like it mattered to much to me) She ivited me in and I froze and im like its whatever and just stayed with the car while she went to change her pants (was a warm day and she wanted to wear some capris) I kinda felt bad that I didnt go like I was ashamed, which I told her ive lived in a trailer and it wasnt a big deal. Anyways she comes back and beforehand she told me she needed to leave by 2:30 to go to class. Its 2 and im like ok well how do I get you back cuase class is mportant and she should go but shes like well its just a crappy class and ill just get notes from someone else. Im like thats cool and we drive though town and just enjoy the day. Go back to my apartment and watch a movie until she really has to go to her next class (she said she has a test) which she kinda said she could miss but I was like no you need to go to the test then shes like yeah if I miss it then she would be screwed. So she leaves and he hug and and everything before she leaves. I called her later after her class and we talk for a few (i got a pay as you go phone so it cost me a bundle to talk to her hsd: ) I just dont know how to go with her. I mean shes told me shes lived with ex b/fs of her but seems like she isnt that way. We talked about how becuase im tall but bulky I have hard time finding pants that fit well and shes like well I hate haveing my underwear show so I have a hard time to and becuase she has nice hips but is short (like 5'4" short and im 6'2") Just things she tells me about her screams a girl that I would look for in personallity and everything so I dont want to screw up like by trying to kiss her to soon and all that jazz assuming she likes me or whatever. I just assume becuase she when I think things are going back she tells me to make sure I call her tomarrow at so and so time cuase thats when she will be outta class so its whatever. I guess I wouldnt have such a hard time with alll this but I guess for anyways thats remember my threads about my ex its been like 3 years since I dated someone new. Espically like this. When I dated my ex I had been friends with her for a year and we had already gone though a bunch of shit and so yeah. So what does OT think? Am I just being stupid and should go with the flow or it seem like she just does her own thing I guess.