Since January I've had this guy trying to get me to go out with him. I heard after half the night was over he was a wild child. I am more laid back. I met him on new years and I really liked him. He seemed really mello and super sweet but people told me we wouldn't mesh very well based on the fact that he was always doing crazy things I wouldn't be ok with. I backed off that night and everytime I've seen him he's tried to get me to go out with him. I've heard over the last year that he talked about me all the time. People told me that they noticed he had seemed to clean up his act. He wasn't drinking as much... if at all. I also heard that this was because he really liked me and didn't like the fact that I heard negative things about him from his own friends. I was finally encouraged to give him a chance. He apologized for not trying to get ahold of me sooner but he was tryng to clean up his act before he got involved with me. I ended up planning to go out with him two weeks ago. He cancelled saying that they ended up making him work both days we had planned to maybe go and that he had a friend coming in town to stay with him for a wedding that weekend and that he wanted to go out. I was actually really looking forward to it and really disappointed. I went to work the next day I worked (Tuesday last week) and he sent me flowers asking me to go to dinner with him that night at one of the most expensive restaurants in town. Obviously I went and I had a great time. He spent $120 on dinner and was still trying to get me to eat dessert. We talked non stop. It was really comfortable. He made a lot of comments about the future which seemed as though he really wanted me included in it. I told him about a vacation I had coming up with no where to go and he said maybe we could go somewhere together. So it sounded as if he wanted a serious relationship but I want to make sure everything doesn't move too fast and he's acting his age now before I get to wrapped up in it. We hung out Friday night till pretty late. Rented movies. First time we kissed. He kept brushing the side of my face when we kissed so I figured that was a good sign. When he left I told him to call me. I left it open not giving a timeline so he wouldn't feel pressured... he called me the next evening..(yesterday). I was on my way out of town to visit my mom. Not that far, but was coming back home at a decent hour. He asked me if I'd like to come see him when I got home and I said yes and that I'd call him when I got back in town. I called on the way back...talked to him for about 5 minutes. He was at a friends and asked me to talk to his sister cause he was in the middle of something. But then decided he'd call me right back and I haven't heard from him since. I'm seriously confused, and in a way I'm a little irritated...because blowing people off is one of my hugest pet peeves in the whole world, no matter who it is. Especially since all this is just starting I'd think he would know better. I really like being with him. I figured if he didn't like being with me he wouldn't have called so soon or even asked me to see him last night even though it didn't happen but being blown off is not something I want to turn into a habit... How do you confront that without trying to seem bitchy about it? cliffs: Went out this week a couple times with a great guy. He's been trying to date me for awhile. Had an awesome time. He called me last night and asked to see me. Called him when I got back in town and he told me he'd call right back. Haven't heard from him since. I'm not saying at this point this is a deal breaker yet but it's not something I'm willing to put up with. Do I deal with this now or later?