well, last sunday after a long period of thinking and debating what i really want. i scalpeled my frenum(the skin not the piercing) off and scalpeled a p.a. to 4gauge(previously had nothing there). healing has been fine, and the incision from the frenectomy is what's giving me the most pain. urinating was bad for the first few days and i had minor bleeding, and only bled heavily on day 3 for some reason(my guess is the swelling finally went down and let the blood loose!) i don't have pics to show cuz it was looking pretty bad and swollen, and right now i still have some mild bruising, once that's cleared up i'll post some pics. and maybe i'll show some of the day after pics?