I guess I'll start by saying I don't think I've ever really had a successful or any real relationship with girls in the past. For example last year I just hooked up with a bunch of random girls I would meet at parties and a few of them turned into 1-2 week long awkward relationships that didn't end up going anywhere. Basically I would hook up and hang out some more times and then one of us would get bored and it would sort of end. I think part of my problem was I was always trying to lose my virginity and try to take things too fast with girls and scare them off. Anyway a few weeks ago I met this girl in my building (she was also a virgin) and ended up convincing her to lose it to me- we fucked a few times after that and then stopped talking. She was kind of a freak and told me she was bi afterwards plus wasn't that hot so i don't care so much. Well two weekends ago I met this great asian chick and we really seem to hit it off. We get along great and have a lot of fun with each other, she is really cute and def a good catch by my standards. I didn't want to rush into trying to fuck this girl in part because I didn't want to ruin anything and also I wasn't on a quest to lose my virginity anymore. Last night I took her to a party and then we came back and I ended up fucking her. Definitely not the best circumstances since I didn't wack off in like four days and lasted a solid two minutes. Hopefully tonight will be better. Anyway, she told me that she has never gotten off from sex or another guy at all before, and I kind of want to change that so any advice there would be good. And also, I want this to develop into a relationship that will hopefully last a while and I'm not sure the best way to turn it in that direction. In the very beginning we just hung out at night and just blazed, watched movies and listened to music and hooked up. Now it is starting to get a little more serious and I want to take this in the right direction. I really don't know the first thing about being a good boyfriend and maintaining a successful relationship. I don't want to screw this up too badly so I appreciate any advice or links to read. Be nice.